How to end a first date?

 How to end a first date ?

•  POLITELY DECLINE ANOTHER DATE

It is delicate to say no to people. Women, especially, find this tricky because we have been raised to be polite. But it is far better, to be honest, and polite.
When we are dishonest we raise a person’s hopes. Although we might have eased the situation in the present for us, we have given this person false opportunity that they might consider dating us again, and that is not fair.
So if you are asked whether you would wish to leave again
“That is flattering but I do not think we are a match.”
“I think we would be better as buddies.”

•  AVOID KISSING OR HUGGING AS YOU ARE A PART COMPANY

It is easy to get the wrong impression on a primary date. If you do not want to see the person again do not make body contact with them. This includes a goodnight kiss or hugs in the last many minutes of the date.
We can tell a lot from a person’s body language, so indeed a handshake at the end of the night will gesture you are not interested in a romantic relationship.

•  DO NOT SAY YOU WILL CALL

What does one tell to end the primary date if you do not want to ascertain this person again? It is tempting to say “ I will call you” or “ I will be in touch” or “ See you soon”. But people take this as a clue you will do as you say.
You might be saying it as a way of easing down and avoiding awkwardness, but this person is now staying for that call or Message.
Rather, have some stock‘ farewells’ ready, alike as
. “ Drive safely”, “ Get home safe”, “ Good luck with that, coming week”, “ Give your dog a hug from me”.
If the date is going bad and you want to leave beforehand.

•  BE HONEST AND CALL IT EACH DAY

Occasionally it is egregious to both parties that the atmosphere is super awkward, and there is no point in carrying on. If you are feeling that you simply won’t offend you will call time on the night.
Be polite by saying we do not feel to have much in common do we? Shall we call it a night? ‘You can be a little light-hearted to ease any stress and say‘ it is going well is not it!’

•  HAVE SOME ‘ GO-TO ’ EXCUSES

It is always a good idea to have some ready-made excuses or reasons why you may have to leave beforehand. That migraine is coming on because you had red wine for the primary time in months. Or you have an early meeting across town that you simply got to prepare for.
Keep the reason simple and stick with your guns. Do not be persuaded to stay for just one further drink’.

•  DO NOT AGREE TO EXTEND THE DATE

If you have arranged to meet for coffee or drinks and this person now wants to take you for dinner or a club you are impeccably entitled to decline. You can say I am sorry, I am meeting buddies for dinner or I can not, I have made alternative plans for the rest of the day.’
IF YOU DO NOT FEEL SAFE TELL STAFF
Unfortunately, some people can take rejection enough hard. Maybe they are narcissistic and are not used to someone saying no to them. Thankfully, establishments are taking our safety seriously now.Still, go to the staff and ask for assistance, If you feel overhung by your date. However, discreetly leave and phone for a cab or a friend, also come back and say a breaking point has come up and you have to go, If you have a feeling that commodity is not relatively right.

SOURCE

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