Things Men Love to Do During Sex But Are Afraid to Ask
Sexual communication is key for a healthy relationship. Let’s explore what men might want during sex but are too shy to ask for – and how to talk openly about it.
1. More Foreplay
Many men enjoy longer foreplay, not just quick action. Explore kissing, touching, and slow build-ups to enhance pleasure.
2. Being Vocal
Some men want to hear encouraging words or sounds – but they may feel shy to ask. Open communication can make this more comfortable.
3. Trying New Positions
Switching positions or experimenting can add excitement. Many men like variety but may worry about asking for it.
Real-Life Example
James, 32, shared: “I used to feel embarrassed about wanting more foreplay. Talking openly with my partner made it fun and built more trust.”
How to Create a Safe Space
- Talk about what feels good – both physically and emotionally
- Use humour or gentle language to share desires
- Focus on mutual pleasure and explore together
FAQs
- Is it normal to have these desires? Absolutely – communication and trust help make sex better for both partners.
- How do I start the conversation? A simple question like, “What do you like?” can open the door to sharing.
Conclusion
When partners trust each other and talk openly, sex becomes more enjoyable and fulfilling for both. Don’t be afraid to explore new things together!
For more on healthy sexual relationships, read Sexual Health for Women and What is Emotional Health?.
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Trust, explore, and enjoy – together!