Should girls take the lead on bed?

Should girls take the lead in bed? Here’s what guys secretly want, how to feel confident doing it, and why taking control doesn’t mean losing respect.

If you’re asking whether girls should take the lead in bed, the answer is simple: yes — when she wants to.

1. Most Guys Are Tired of Always Leading

2. It Doesn’t Mean Doing Everything

  • Kissing first
  • Climbing on top
  • Saying what you want — and when

3. It Shows You’re Comfortable With Your Own Desire

4. It Makes Things Easier for Him Too

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5. You Set the Pace

6. It Boosts Your Own Confidence Too

7. Communication Becomes Way Easier

  • “I like when you do this…”
  • “Can we try it like that?”
  • “Let’s switch it up.”

8. You’re Not Being “Too Much”

9. You Create a Safe Space for Exploration

10. You Don’t Have to Lead Every Time

Final Word: Should Girls Take the Lead in Bed?

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