HOW TO PREVENT ADULTING FROM RUINING YOUR ORGASMS
If
you're a Gen Zer or a Genzennial, you've probably seen that all adults wing it
to some degree. And that is precisely how orgasms are put on hold.
Adulting
entails a bevy of duties, which means that one element of your life will almost
certainly be put on hold at times. Because sex is a form of relaxation and
enjoyment, it naturally diminishes when you're stressed. Intention, on the
other hand, is crucial. Being mindful about sex is vital to the overall quality
of your relationship, especially if you have a spouse or partners that value
sexual intimacy.
It's
crucial to ask yourself questions like "Why am I too busy for sex?"
and "Why am I too busy for sex?" as discussed by mindbodygreen. o I
believe I have earned the right to slow down and enjoy pleasant experiences?
Also, am I avoiding sex because I don't have time or because I don't believe I
have it?
You're
giving yourself time to prioritize pleasure by asking yourself these questions.
This will also assist you in determining whether your lack of sex or drive is
related to internal or external factors, as well as how to resolve the issue.
The
best remedy, as previously indicated, is intention. Setting a regular date
night or prioritizing quickies until you have more time is all it takes. You
can also change your perspective on sex by removing orgasms as the aim and
replacing it with sexual stimulation.
The
point is that pleasure is vital, and you are entitled to it. No number of daily
activities and functions should be allowed to overwhelm your need for
enjoyment.
If
you discover the problem is deeper than meets the eye, make an appointment with
a sex therapist to discuss what's lurking beneath the surface.