Simple secrets to totally rock your dating

 Simple secrets to totally rock your dating

Whether you’re immersed in the dating world and swiping left and right on Tinder, or you’re part of an overzealous LDR with petty issues and needless fights here and there, that’s what our dating is all about. We can all use a little room for improvement. Life is approx. In fact, like a dramatic episode of Sex and the City, your love life shouldn’t drain you, strain you, or leave you questioning. Should energize and inspire. If not, you have work to do.

Give you more power if you’re single and don’t feel like settling down (I absolutely hate that word). You have achieved the life that most of us desire, but this article is not for you. But if you are currently in a relationship or looking for a relationship, let it be your life. Here’s how to turn it into your happiest relationship.

1. Change your mindset

I too am guilty of not blaming myself for the setbacks in my relationship life. It’s so easy to complain to your friends (“Why are all boys so stupid!? But let’s face it - the only person in the world you can control is yourself.”

 Once you understand that, I will not read from this average article, but instead of expecting people around me to change, I really understand that changing the way you think can give you power.

It means that when looking for a partner, first know what you deserve and make no exceptions (more on that below). Also, think about the patterns that might hold you back from finding the right person. Are you insecure and not very open to dating? Or do you just think the same type of person you know is wrong for you? Focus on what you can do to help.

2. Brutal honesty is the best policy

One of the best lessons I’ve learned from my current relationship is that the best relationships in the world have to be brutally honest. If you don’t feel like being completely transparent with the person you’re with, whether you’re concerned about hurting or making them angry, or about judging who you really are., you may not be with that person. Even in a good relationship, there can be pitfalls and suspicions. Your ability to discuss and resolve your most damaging doubts with your partner (with support and understanding) is what separates a breakup from a long and happy relationship.

3. Know your deal breakers

To get the desired relationship, you need to know the desired relationship. Think about the elements that are very important to you and that you don’t want to compromise under any circumstances. This is not your “dream” list. This is a list of non-negotiable items. Think about it: you don’t want kids, you’re unfriendly to servers, you’re misogynistic, or you have no sense of humor. Don’t think someone has one of your deal breakers. Believe that everyone has their flaws when you are in a relationship.

4. Loves being alone

It may sound counter intuitive, but this article is actually about how to make your partner successful. But what’s more appealing to a potential or current partner than your looks is the confidence you exude.

Also, enjoying your alone time ensures that you are in a relationship for the right reasons. You don’t compromise for more than you need, and you deserve to stop being alone. You would rather have a happy relationship with yourself than have a toxic relationship with another person. Go out for dinner, read an influential book, or take a nice bath at home. If you’re not confident, don’t expect your partner to make you feel better.

5. Fight right

You fight even in the dream relationship you’ve always wanted. It’s how you fight that makes all the difference to the health and happiness of your relationship. Make demands instead of complaining, take turns speaking, and know when to pause when an argument gets too heated. Please give me time. As a couple, try to mend your disagreements the same way you would tackle any other aspect of your relationship, even if it’s not necessarily romantic or funny.

6. Ask “How are you?” every day.

One of the easiest and most important things you can do to improve your relationship is to ask your partner, “How was your day?” and actually care about the answer. Perfect Conversational Techniques - Know how to make your partner feel listened to, ask follow-up questions and listen, and share your thoughts and thoughts as soon as you’re done talking. When your partner feels like you care more than they should and actually want to be a part of everything they do, it subconsciously creates additional levels of teamwork, love, and intimacy.

7. Be more affectionate

Speaking of intimacy, physical affection may not be the deciding factor separating happy lifelong relationships from short, toxic ones everyone knew). That's what separates a close friendship from a lasting romance. You can't always feel the "passion" that you had when you first started dating (if you do, DM us your secrets), but a little bit is enough to keep the spark alive. Hold hands, kiss outside of routines (i.e. not just say goodbye or goodnight), and hug often.

Always Remember

Never forget that all relationships are about emotions after all. Especially when fighting, you get so caught up in facts, details, and words... And the funny thing is that in the end it hardly matters. Twenty-five percent of them didn't even remember what the discussion was about, but all of them said they described their three most recent disagreements with their partners. I remembered. inconsistent. 

She could explain her feelings about the situation, although 25% of respondents forgot the subject of their disagreement. [100 SIMPLE SECRETS OF GREAT RELATIONSHIPS]

As Maya Angelou once said, “People forget what you said, they forget what you did, but people forget how you made them feel. I will never forget how you did it.” And how did you feel about it?


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