WHAT ARE THE SIGNS OF PARENTAL EMOTIONAL ABUSE TO THEIR KIDS?
What Is Emotional Abuse by Parents?
According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention( CDC), child abuse and neglect are entirely too common in the United States, with one in seven children being a victim. While any child can be a victim of emotional abuse, the CDC notes that children living in poverty are in greater danger of abuse.
While emotional abuse does not leave scrapes or bruises, it can leave severe emotional scars and be just as damaging to a child as physical or sexual abuse. though, because it does not leave physical marks, it can be harder to recognize and tougher to prove, so people and law enforcement authorities may be less likely to intervene and help the child.
However, it is important to note that child abuse by parents or legal guardians of children below the legal of eighteen is a crime, punishable under the Federal Child Abuse Prevention and Treatment Act.
Types of Emotional Abuse by Parents
These are some of the types of emotional abuse children may experience from their parents
Blaming the child for adult problems
Constantly criticizing the child
Dismissing the child’s Emotions
Rejecting the child repeatedly
Deliberately causing the child emotional pain
Ridiculing the child or mocking them
Humiliating or publicly shaming the juvenile
Talking down to the child
Calling the juvenile's names
Getting angry at the child oft
Yelling or swearing at the child
Threatening to abandon the child
Threatening to harm the child or their family members, buddies, or pets
Intimidating or spooking the child
Coercing or manipulating the child
Gas lighting the child
again and again, harassing or picking on the child
Ignoring the child or using silence to control their behaviour
Withholding love, support, and guidance
Neglecting to care for the child and their requirements
Allowing the child to witness domestic violence and abuse
Emotional abuse can be perpetuated in person or online, through Message messages, emails, social networks, and other digital applications or platforms.
Signs of Emotional Abuse
These are some common signs that a child might be experiencing abuse
Sudden changes in behaviour or academic performance
Watchful demeanour, as however waiting for something bad to be
unease around certain people
A tendency to avoid being around certain human- beings
Withdrawn or unresponsive demeanour
Overly passive or compliant behaviour
Early arrival and late departure from the academy or other activities
Reluctance to go home
Lack of adult supervision
Emotional distress or agitation
Aggression or rage
These are some of the signs of emotionally abusive parents
Denying that there are any problems at home or academy
Telling schoolteachers and other caregivers to discipline the child brutally if they misbehave
Rarely touching the child or showing affection
Stating that they do not like the child
Describing the child as a burden
Showing little concern for the child and refusing others ’ help
Demanding academic results and sporting performances the child can not achieve
Berating the child in front of their buddies, schoolteachers, or neighbours
Impact of Emotional Abuse By Parents
Cognitive difficulties, similar to difficulty paying attention, learning, and remembering Academic issues, similar to lower attendance in the academy, poor academic performance, and disciplinary issues
Mental health conditions, similar to depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder( PTSD), and low self-esteem
Emotional difficulties, including difficulty interpreting, communicating, processing, and regulating feelings
Substance uses, similar to alcohol, nicotine, or Heavy drugs at an early age
Behavioural issues, similar to acting out, behaving bizarrely, or trying hard to please others
Changes in weight and appetite, which could result in eating disorders, nutrition deficiencies, and malnourishment
Sleep issues, similar to wakefulness or nightmares
Physical aches and pains, that have no other discernible cause and don't seem to get better with treatment
Career issues, as a result of lower educational attainment, limited employment opportunities, and an increased danger of delinquency
Relationship issues, due to mainly unhealthy dynamics being modelled
Children who have been emotionally abused are more likely to be abusive to others or to seek out vituperative people, because this is the relationship dynamic they grew up with. Therefore, they may eventually become victims or perpetrators of abuse in the future. This is known as the intergenerational cycle of violence.